You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted
“Most men think they’re great in bed,” observed Jane, a marriage counsellor. “But much as we love our men, a five-minute quickie before lights out really doesn’t get the earth moving! It’s not that they lack enthusiasm. They’re just being typical male – always ready for action.
The problem is their technique – most of them don’t have any. Foreplay is clumsy and hurried, and as for the sex, it’s always wham, bam … was that it?”
Fortunately, all is not lost for these men. According to Canadian expert Lou Paget, author of How To Be A Great Lover, the key to fabulous sex is foreplay.
Common mistake men make is thinking that the things they enjoy will be pleasurable for their partner too. For instance, the man who doesn’t like a tongue in his ear is rare, but the woman who does like it is rarer.
“For most women, the ‘melt zone is the neck. We go gaga when kissed there. Another help are sex…